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The Judge Neil Show
Reading for Lynn
Lynn calls in about her hot and cold relationship. It recently ended, he moved out, things were really bad. Is there someone else out there for me, are we going to get back together or are we done? Read for Lynn’s ex – Cute kitty, home and the clown. A lot of the fights were because he wasn’t being serious enough about the relationship. You could make a cute couple and there is a settle down card. It’s not a bad read, so there’s nothing wrong with getting back together. We’ve broken up before and gotten back together before. Relationships are really hard. Everyone has competing interests. I am amazed when people are married for 50 years. What is up with that? Alcohol? Lower expectations? The older generation the expectations were different. They expected to work through issues.
Career read – Smelly vagina, teamwork and shit. There’s some disappointments with the job. It looked good at first but doesn’t end up to be all that. You’ll be working with other people to a common goal. I get unfulfilled. Not horribly bad, but kind of an emptiness. Even if it was better, it still wouldn’t be fulfiling. What do you feel is missing from all this? I used to work for myself before and maybe it’s the freedom I miss. It’s not about money. The only way you’re going to get that satisfaction is to be on your own again. It’s
amplified because of the loss of the relationship. If the things in the relationship were going well the job would not weigh down on you as much. When everything is down you need to take things one by one. With your side business it will be all you and you’ll have more control as opposed to working on a relationship. You won’t have full control over a relationship.
Dating life read – do you want a professional or do you want some guy who plays xbox all day in his mom’s basement? I need an ambitious guy. What about a guy who works 60 hours a week? Must not play video games. Someone mature. Like 70? Someone who makes adult decisions and is stable in life. What are you attracted to? Are you attracted to immature guys? So your ex seemed mature when you met him. Do you like the fixer upper? He was generous, loyal and I liked a lot of qualities. Someone independent and self sufficient would be ideal. Cheater, jail and the feast – mixed bag for your dating life. The kind of guy you’re looking for is probably married already. Jail is a relationship that starts off nice but gets clingy so watch out for that. The feast card is a good guy out there for you. These are the kind of guys that will pursue you. The married guy may not tell you he’s married. There’s a little deception out there. The feast guy will be very fulfilling to you in many ways and that can work out really well.